I shouldn't have said anything......I know people assume that it must be very clear cut....make it stop. I wish it were that easy and that the system saw it that way. I've been to court twice and nothing, have had lawyers that find their hands tied. I'm sorry, I shouldn't have said anything. Sometimes I think posting my thoughts and things that happen help me keep from doing something self destructive but I forget that it must seem that because it has happened again that I must somehow want it to or allow it. Thank you guys for all your support and good thoughts, it has been great here.