Hi, lostinmyhead! You have certainly had some tough breaks. I am glad to hear, though, that you have hung in here. As you say, at least you have a job.

Do you have any money to talk to a counselor? That might help you to get over your last girlfriend. Also, I know this suggestion might sound silly, but you might find reading some books about getting along with people helpful, even a classic such as How to Win Friends and Influence People. People skills can take practice, so if you can get out to social places and meet other people, then that can help. Plus you might meet a new lady!