are your T and Pdoc a combo ??? Do you like your T ? I am not certain if legally a T can even be the go between... Usually a Nurse RN or at least a LPN would/could/should be relaying information.

Your whole situation looks like a train wreck waiting to happen.

Look into Psych care on campus, try to manage your stress, enjoy your new haircolor ! Hopefully you can hang in there until you can get a real Pdoc to help you