Right. WE changed YOU - by you putting yourself out there to help us. You know that's what abusive spouses say - your friends are no good, honey! I don't see why you can't just take a break for a weekend - it doesn't have to be the end of the world. She is power-trippin. In my mind, anyway! Tell her to come up here and help me clean my house, do a good deed, help an old lady out! If she has so much energy!

I'm sorry, I am nuts! I hope you two w ork this out. It's hot up in here.