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Old Apr 18, 2013, 08:16 AM
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Originally Posted by nevergoodenough View Post
The problem though is that sharing it makes me less cautious, and expecting the other person to be exceptionally forgiving, like you said, which can end badly.
This is a mistake I really wish I hadn't made. Glad to know someone else recognises that it might be a problem.

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Originally Posted by Maranara View Post
If the relationship gets close, then maybe more, but I honestly don't know how you can say it or put it that it will be be taken in a way not intended. Not meaning to be negative, but I've had very bad experiences with this.
I hear you. It's something I've just learned. The hard way. I guess sharing all the details of our struggle mitigates the loneliness we grapple with.