Hi SoxCatch ~

Entering a new relationship with a clean slate can be hard when you're left with emotional scars from a past destructive one. But that's where that relationship is - in the past. And your feelings for your ex-wife, the one that hurt you, needs to be left with her and not transferred onto your present girlfriend. It will only damage your relationship in the long run...

It's good, however that you are able to recognize that your behavior is 'off-key'. That means that there is hope for you to work on it.

Now for the harsher part... Every time you're feeling jealous just forget about it. If she's going to cheat, she will. You (in effect) saying 'don't cheat' really won't make a difference... 'cheaters, cheat' and the sooner you realize that the better.

But, if your girlfriend truly cares about you, she's not going to cheat full stop. We all deserve to find someone that truly cares about us and who's feelings towards us are genuine. You won't need to worry because when you find that person, they wont do anything to hurt you. All in all, stop worrying, just relax and enjoy your time with your girlfriend

All the best and I wish you luck ~