Well, the idea of not wanting to be seen naked by bf or husband is common enough to be often discussed.

Concerns about being attractive: there are entire industries built on that. Part of attractiveness is a function of context more than any objective thing; another level is style; another is personality and confidence. It's a lot to work out.

But we're all born naked like every other animal, so a lot of this discomfort is cultural baggage - and incredibly complicated. You could spend a lifetime untangling it, or you could dismiss it as I mostly have. There's a continuum of choices.