So my baby is a year old and since giving birth I have had NO drive what so ever and it is really hurting our relationship. When we do try something, it is really painful to me. My husband is obviously bothered by this as he constantly begs/mildly harasses me about it and if I don't then he will go off very obviously disappointed. He will offer to preform oral on me and I still really don't want anything sexual out of it. It is really bothering me because of how much he is obviously upset that we aren't being intimate anymore. Is there anyway I can force myself to get intimate?