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It has been some time that the little things have made me question him.
Is he telling me the truth? why does he hide things from me?
Why all of a sudden does he meat me for a lunch date, he is late of course however when he shows up his eyes are glassy and his skin is glowing and he looks wonderful! He looks at me like I havent seen since we were first dating and says to me. Oh, you just dont know how much I really love you. This sounds like a dream come true and at the time I felt like I was being swept off my feet for the first time by Romeo himself, how fantastic! what a wonderful lunch after lunch we walked around the mall and came to the jewelry store and he says lets look at those wedding rings. We went to the store and he actually inquired how much the mens wedding rings cost?
He looked at me and I said, "honey, you havent had a wedding ring in 8 years what makes you all of a sudden want to buy a wedding ring?"
He reacted upset and acted cold and distant after I said that? Acted like I didnt understand where eggs come from little own why he was all of a sudden interested in buying an expensive wedding ring which we couldnt afford?
He all of a sudden was talking about weddings and rings and it just came out of no where?
To me it was odd? why where is this coming from is it something out of the ordinary is it normal? I didnt understand?
So I just went with it, I acted like we were going to have a second wedding and I started to talk about dresses and what would he think would look nice and what would he like to do and how ? He dropped the subject all together and when I asked him about it he said nothing to me he just acted like he didnt hear me?
A few mo's later I was looking at his computer from work and clicked on excel the first thing that popped up was a wedding planner?
I thought what? why would a man have a wedding planner on his computer at work?
It just seemed odd or out of place to me? I asked him about it? he said oh, those are just templates that come with Excel. I said sure and dropped it. I called MS software products up and asked if that came with excel they said no it does not, it is a third party software product.
He brought his computer home and I clicked on the program again which had dates and prices and said your wedding is set for 400 days from now. June 14 2014 I dont know is this standard or what? Anyhow I asked him about it again in a joking way and he said I told you silly it is a template that comes with Excel.
What should I make of this?
I didnt mention that he has also changed in to many ways to count lost weight hair different lies constantly about things I know he is lying about new music new sub. he likes new plans he mentions makes love differently just lots of things he is almost like a new person?
any advice or opinions are welcome
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