Thanks for all your responses. I would like to think about what I want to say before I reply because I just really have some issues that i would like say but I need to think of how I would like to say. No its not anything negative that anyone said I think everyone is just saying how they feel and what is the right thing they believe I should do which ones opinion is never wrong if thats truly how they feel ( at leas to me, we are all different and think differently so I respect others feelings and thoughts) THank you all!