Okay, I have been wondered about this for a while..
I take meds(for now).. But even medicated I still have some highs and lows. and I am very Ok with this.
When I spoke to my T about this yesterday ... he said " medications do not fix everything , Bipolar or not you will be up and down , like normal human beings. there is no reason for people on medications to be so medicated that they can not function at all "
Of course there are times that it is Bipolar and you need additional help. For me its the pain and hallucinations that lead to sui issues.
There are times I get pissed off for a damn good reason. example : I got my nose pierced my husband thinks I am too old for that "

(I'm 46).. OH hell yes I got Pissed at him.. It's not my Bipolar it's just life.
Every mood I have or feel isn't Bipolar ... Its just life.
Personally I do all the self care I can to help myself.
Anyway , just wanted to know if others feel this way ?