I used to hear, "I love you hankster" but I knew it was only me saying it, so it was really pretty pathetic. After my last breakup, it was, "I don't love you anymore, succubus". Then I read "living with ED" By jennie shaefer and realized the voices in my head were family of origin. Then I got busy saying I love you to t and hearing it back from him, and hearing nice things from people here. Like from stopdog. Well okay from mkac. I don't not like you doesn't exactly raise my temperature. Just kidding!! Gotta go get the laundry switched. Why isn't this working for you? Cuz you're still getting mixed signals and trying to please the unpleasable w? Whereas here, you apologize, it's pretty much forgiven and forgotten, until you ie I do it again.