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Old Apr 18, 2013, 07:21 PM
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Ugh, I HATE when people are like that. She was convinced I had put on some kind of act to get prescribed it, I was like, no I didn't.....I didn't even believe it. She can't believe they aren't fun, or that I could possibly forget them, or that I don't abuse them. She doesn't understand that if you take ONE, and you take it ORALLY, it isn't going to make you tweeked out. She says it feels like coke, and I say...not if you don't put it up your nose....it's a PILL....you're supposed to swallow it. She is nuts. She had her kid on medicine, and went and repeatedly threw a fit until she got put on them, and she will run through all of this in a week, and then after me....I used to not answer my phone, or hide. She would come after me at work even. It is lame. She will steal them, she will cry and threaten suicide, she will threaten to "call my doctor and tell her I don't need them" etc. I pretty much avoid her and don't return her texts.

She will do this with pain pills, and anything. After my husband had surgery she went to our house when we were at work (she used to have a key) and tore the house apart til she found them, stole them, and lied about it. She has tried to get me to take medicines or prescription pads from the hospital and write her scripts, and I've repeatedly told her I'm not doing that, wtf is your deal...I went to college for this...go away. She is responsible for noting that I had refills on pain meds which were in my medicine cabinet, calling and saying she was me and getting it filled, and picking it up, without my knowledge.

She doesn't work, she is a pill fiend, and the only time she wants anything to do with me is to get money or try to get pills. She claimed her husband was mean, moved in with us, and borrowed $7,000 from me for a down payment on a house, and then wanted me to make her payments...when I said they are $200, you can work, and pay them....she went on a search for someone to move in with her to pay all the bills. She finally got the third one she tried to move in. She screws him in return for his financial support, her husband who she isn't even divorced from has custody of the kids, and she literally sits around smoking cigarettes and pot all day, and trying to get a hold of pills. When she still could get into our house, she came over to shop while we were at work, and would remove burger, roasts, steaks, sausage, pizzas, etc from our freezer. She took my sanders and tried to return one to the store for cash.

She no longer has keys or access to our house, our garage, our business, or vehicles. She has sold several items of mine. I am just DONE, I'm not even sad anymore, or not much, my heart is broken because we were the best if friends for over fifteen years, but something just snapped in her, and I think it has to do with when her dad died, but I don't know how to help her, I've given and given, and I'm all given out. I'm tired of her crap. I've changed all our locks and codes. She won't go to counseling, she won't take medicine unless she can get buzzed on it, in which case she abuses it. I've worried for her health. I've begged her. I love her but right now I can't stand her. I actually feel bad for her husband. I wonder if she made it all up. I've begged her to stop the drugs, she lies and says she doesn't do drugs and I need to shut up....I've begged her to go to rehab or counseling. I've offered to go to NA with her. She will say she doesn't need it....I am the one who needs it...not her. Huh?!?

It is sad and I miss how she used to be, I could KILL the girl who introduced her to all this pill mess, but honestly I don't think the other gal intended this at all....my friend said she hurt, and the other girl gave her a pain pill....and then she went and got a prescription. She can't understand that when you take a pill, it isn't to be getting high off of.

It is too painful to watch, and I'm tired of her crap, so I avoid her like the plague....I've been burnt too many times....the last time she said she missed me, and wanted to go and shop and hang out, and I believed it, and sure enough, she was immediately after me....I lied and said I don't have any....and she was on me hard core to "get it filled, hurry up, I need them, if you were my friend, you would help me, I want to die, please just get me....anything....I will take anything." Oh my GOD. Last time! She "missed me and wanted to hang out" last week....I never even responded.

I hate that she is like that. It is so annoying. I hope someday we can be friends again, but I'm not counting on it.