I do want to say my husband is not a ba guy. I have been in an abusive relationship before and this is not it. In fact he is a great guy. Just very tactless and rather single minded at times. I do think my nursing the has something to do with it but I am nervous that there may be underlying issues. My mom was a great mom (still is) but is really closed off when it comes to sex and I have NEVER been comfortable discussing it in a clinical way if that makes sense. I'm already fretting over when my daughter will start experimenting. It keeps me awake at night. And no I'm not over religious nor do I except her to stay celibate till marriage for I wouldn't want her to get married for the wrong reasons. I'm just weird about the whole thing.