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Originally Posted by Anika.
Not sure, I've never seen money as a motivator in my life. I can't seem to get motivated by money and never looked at money as a qualifier for relationships.
Never owned a car or driven and I am 34 so to that end I wouldn't care what kind of car they had if they had a car.
But I would say if you want to make a lot of money...do it soley for you because you want to without any expectations. The old saying money can't buy everything is very true. It certainly cannot buy love. A companion maybe or an escort, but not love. Wouldn't you be worried you would always be questioning if they liked you or just what you have and then the worry of what would happen when the well runs dry?
I never liked mustangs, more attracted to an old station wagon with wood panelling and not the trendy vintage ones, no the one we had in rhe early 80's, or a nice bike maybe...dunno what that says about me ( maybe my tatse is off ), but I would just try to focus on making yourslef happy and the rest will follow suit. The most attractive things that draw others usually has little to do with material goods. I would think.
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Money is not a major factor in my life but there are dreams I have that require money for me to fulfill.
No, I wouldn’t be worried if they liked me for what I have or if they liked me, because if they liked me for what I have at least I know that as long as I have what is attractive than they will be with me. What does definitely worry me though is when someone ‘likes’ me because of who I am, not that this happens much, because although it would be ideal, being loved for who I am is even more of an insecure relationship, as I can never be sure they will be there tomorrow.
My best friend liked me for who I am, and we were friends for 5 years, until suddenly she sends me an email one day and ends it there with no explanation. We haven’t talked since. I don’t see that as being more secure than being liked for what I have.
Few individuals have liked me for who I am; it’s almost always because of what I have or what I can do for them.
I’m not above an escort I don’t think. Sometimes I am so lonely I want to claw my eyes out. Seriously loneliness is one of my biggest triggers for suicidal ideation. I am so sick of being rejected and being alone all the time!