well dear if you re nursing that is totally it. The more your baby relies on you for nurishment the less likely you are to want sex. God planned it that way. If your baby needs you for nurishment and you get pregnent again then your current child will be the one to lose out on valuable nutrients.

I nursed all three of my kids. I nursed for 18 mo, 9 months, and 2 1/2 years. On top of not having the drive to have sex, you also are getting a good amount of hugging and cuddling from a small child who needs you more then anything. Often that is enough for a mom to not really feel the need for more closeness w/ another person. Sometimes (in my case) it is enough to make you want to cringe if another person needs one more thing from you.

With the exaustion that a child brings reguardless of the age, and the late nights, interupted sleep, laundry, dishes, and work if you choose to work. It is amazing that you have time or enough sanity to remember to brush your teeth. Much less satisify someone elses sexual needs.

It is hard to remember that daddies still need to be loved to. Aren't men our biggest babies anyway. They need us, our help our attention and even our affection. I know that it may seem that your H has a one track mind, but could he be feeling ignored and just want mommy all to him self some.

You can't make yourself want to do it, but you can do it anyway and sometimes it turns out you are glad you did do it. On the plus side, it makes your H happier and more agreeable to most likely.

Hope yall can find a happy medium.