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Originally Posted by OR82
Not to be rude, I am still frustrated, but why exactly does it have to be he's hard to get so I want him crap? I hate hearing that because quite frankly its stupid. I have two friends that I call real friends. One of them I would quite literally die for, I help those in need when asked regardless of who or what....why exactly are these not desirable traits? Can I handle any situation that comes up? Yes. Can I protect her? Yes, with my life if needed. So what exactly is wrong with me? Why the games?
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I am totally able to understand this frustration with women. Although not many women like me even as a friend, I have definitely watched women I would have dated complain endlessly about the men in their lives, or talk about how I am ‘just a friend’ to them. Sometimes I have felt that if I was more rude and less friendly, not that I would be, that I would be more attractive. Honestly, how the heck can someone be TOO friendly? As if being too kind is the worse characteristic!
Games like these drive me insane – there is no logic or reason to them. I’ve tried to understand how women work like this, and all I have done is confuse myself more.
When it comes to relationships I am no doubt a lost cause but at least there are women who on some level care about and trust you. Perhaps you will be able to find one that will reciprocate the same feelings.
Wish you the best!