Dear Mr. Venomous ~

Please please do not date (or worse marry) a 'gold-digger'. Although I haven't really admitted this to anyone out loud, my mother was in effect a gold-digger... Trust me, it will not bring you happiness, in fact only misery. My father had wealth, women used him, friends used him, so trust me when I say this (because I know him), money will not buy happiness or the true companionship that you desire.

Hmmm I think where you could possibly be going wrong is that you're not looking in the right kinds of places?

I didn't make many true friends (well people I truly connected with) at high school so afterwards I wasn't sure where to make new friends or meet potential boyfriends. At first I just thought I was just an oddball not really being able to connect with most people and being shy/socially awkward. Well actually I thought that for a long while, but over time (i.e now) I began to realize that I was looking in the wrong places and that people like me actually did exist (lol).

If you really want to spend your money. Join a club, go to events or get a new hobby where you think you'll find people with common interests/similar personality types. Really, I honestly think this is more of a case where you don't know where to find the right kind of compatible women for you. I mean even if you are more of a gamer there are still ways to connect. One of my friends who likes Yu-Gi-Oh goes to a local tournament held every Sunday. Or perhaps you could even do some volunteer work (-charity shops are filled with nice friendly people lol). And don't be shy to leave a place if you don't feel like it's going to lead anywhere either. It's all about trail and error. Just don't give up though.

You actually seem like a nice sensible guy and trust me, there is a women out there who would be happy to be with you (- you just need to find her). I wish you all the best and feel free to keep us updated ~