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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
Considering the opinions of people in general, I feel all of your issues mentally should be reserved only to those that you feel you trust completely. With dating I don't think it's something to share for awhile, considering it takes time to get to know and trust them. Until i'ts a serious relationship, it should be kept to yourself. That's just how I feel but I'm sure there are some that would disagree
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But, say things have gotten quite serious. You've managed to keep most of your BPD stuff under control, but you have a relapse, you rage, you say mean things, you take offense to some minor slight, and your partner is completely dumbfounded. You then tell them that you have an emotional instability condition. Won't they accuse you of being dishonest, selfish even, for not letting them know what they're in for?