I thought the same as Tilly May. Seems to be that he has the issues, and I do think one is very unfair. How can you give someone everything, really let down your barriers if he keeps picking at your personality? I would say that was pretty hard to do. Treat someone with kindness, love, patience and understanding and watch them bloom.

By the way, the way he interprets sex and your sex drive is his problem, not yours. People do have different sex drives, but because yours is lower to his previous girlfriends, it doesn't have to equal you not caring about him. That's a skewered way of thinking and sounds a little manipulative to me. Sorry if I offended you.