The one therapist I have been seeing for 6 month could careless if he let me leave triggered and depressed after having to recount childhood experiences(I no longer do that type of exposure therapy with him. I feel like we just coffe talk now. Like a paid friend). I have negative coping behaviors(Bulimia,SI) and he says all in all it is my choice how I deal with stress. I broke down into tears when I started seeing a second therapist,for EMDR and IFS, when insisted I contact him in any way ,from leaving him a message or e-mailing him ,if I am not feeling good. He would contact me to process what is happening and if necessary bring me back in for a session. It was an overwhelming feeling to hear him say that. To feel someone actually cares.