I don't think money in itself is a motivator, but most people with money have confidence, goals and the fortitude to get things done to have nice things. I think that is a good attractive feature. There are women out there who are looking for an easy ride and would date someone because they have money. I think there are equally as many women who would date someone that respects you because you have nice things, you work hard to better your life, and you have goals and prospects in life. Personal confidence is a big one for most ladies. They want a man who is sure of himself and feel good about who he is. If having a nice car or home makes you happy, then go for it. Be happy with who you are and enjoy the benifiets of your hard work.