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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna
Well she aint waiting around for me to figure it out.... Wow.... I am just like WOW... Part of me says that I should get my *** up and drive the 6 hours and beg for her... an part of me says that buying her things, or making her happy is a band aid...
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I would not think this is ultimately a good plan. I think deciding what it is one wants for oneself would be the first step. You have been flirting with the idea of leaving her too, you have not been happy either, and it will take both of you wanting to change AND following through for it to work in a healthy manner, in my opinion. I do not think that staying together is always a worthy goal.