Run. I say. I know this place, it does not bring you health and joy. It sets you up to be the "problem" and him to be "normal", it is crazy-making, You are entitled to be treated with respect for you feelings, to have your concerns taken seriously, to be equal in the relationship and not to be compared to others real or imagined. Unless he is able to acknowledge his own problems, this is not love...a powerful attachment, a kind of drug perhaps, but not love. He is using his "knowledge", which sounds superficial, as a weapon. Do not stand for it.