Sexy is not just a matter of looks, but heart, feeling, smile, and probably a lot more. I rather like appearing before my husband nude or in some kind of sleazy gown. It gets his hormones going and makes me feel wanted and desirable. I would never go out in public nude though. I believe in modesty to a point, but deliberately covering everything, probably not. Women have to tread a difficult balance between looking unattractive and looking sleazy.

In reading your post, I felt that you were selling yourself short. You do not have to be a beauty queen to feel attractive. It is easy to be hard on ourselves. We are often our own most severe critics I am so sorry that a medical professional of all people would tell you negative stuff about your appearance. I would at least investigate some ways of using make up etc, to cover whatever blemishes you might have. I am sure that it is a scary step for you, but if there is anything that you can do to feel better about you, that may very well make you more attractive to others as well.

Good luck and be encouraged. You deserve to feel good about yourself. I am sure there is a beautiful woman inside who needs to be appreciated. I really believe in you

Love -- Larissa