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Old Apr 19, 2013, 03:21 PM
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few days later she came in and ended it , said it was because she didnt think she made me happy and she needed space,she thought she wasted her years with me. month later i found out it was really because she liked this other guy she meet at her friends house(told me herself im sure the other part helped that along). ...
It would have been much better had the woman told you that she simply liked someone else, without saying the things in bold above. It would have been hard to hear, because being dispreferred is difficult to bear, but at least you would not have been accused of wasted years.

The good thing is... you did not start building a family with a person who so easily accuses you of wasted years.

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i feel like nothing good has happend to me in a long time except this job itself.
Very true. One curve ball after another, non-stop. But the job IS a really good thing.

Last edited by hamster-bamster; Apr 19, 2013 at 04:18 PM.