Recently, I started seeing a therapist to work on my communication skills. We have only met five times so we are still getting to know each other. The last two appointments have left me wondering why she responds to my comments in a certain way. For example, I mentioned my time management problems have affected my grades. She replied, "You are never late for your appointments." After that comment, I felt minimized.

Her responses are confusing. I cannot read nonverbal cues very well so I rely on voice to interpret people. Even with that, I have trouble figuring out the hidden meaning behind people's words. Are her comments minimizing or is this a counseling strategy? How do I talk to her about it without being offensive?