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Old Apr 20, 2013, 01:58 AM
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((Kelly))

Nursing is commonly does affect a woman's sense of sexual desire/s. I've had 2 kids and nursed both for a year each. In both cases, my desire went caput! Whereas during each pregnancy, I had a lot more interest in sex than usual.

Worrying about your baby daughter's future isn't strange, imo, either. I've worried about those upcoming teenage years their future before I even got pregnant in the first place!

Try not to worry too much. You're a mommy ~ we typically do worry about all of the things that could happen to our children. In most cases though, our worries are unfounded & we spend too much time not being present in the current moment. Enjoy NOW. Your daughter is young, and at such a fun age imo!! Remind yourself to be mindful of what's happening now. Right now! Not last week, next month, or years from now.

Check out the attached link to consider getting additional help in re-connecting with your hub emotionally & hopefully, the sex will slowly be comfortably re-added into your marriage. Very best wishes to you!

LLLI | Sexuality and Breastfeeding
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