Thanks for ur response and support.2 mos.ago her and i were talkin bout her movin in w/ US.My man and i agreed it was not a good idea.well him and I began to really not get along he was very vrebally abusive to me.Also threw things at me at times.so wen he put me out i told her and she said she missed her kid so much and i said (just testing)see if he will let u stay w/ himand she failed miserably.so i stopped talkin to her and they began talkin.So they fell in love in 3 weeks over the phone.then on april 12th she came here from PA to NY to live w /him.Ill eventually be ok just feel betrayed.They were never my friends either one of them.I realize now he is very co dependent and coundnt be alone more than a month.And she just using him for a place to be close to her kid.He bearley knew her .her and i talked all the time not him and her.he didn't like her said she was a liar and a ***** cuz she has 3 kids by 3 different men.and has custody of none of them.they couldnt possibly had feelings for each other b4 this she was in a different state?????