I used to get jealous when my husband and I were first married-let me tell you it is no way to live happily ever after. He would get hurt when I accused him of doing things he claims he never would do, but gave me the chance to see if he was cheating or not, we've been married 17 years now happily, i love him very much and would never do that again. Also he had a friend that murdered his wife when he found out his wife cheated on him, so is it really worth all the accusations? If you can't control yourself now, what happens if you've found out she cheated on you. you don't want to ruin your life by doing something stupid if she did cheat on you. Relax and know you love her, even if she did make a mistake.