I also like being a little big as it does make me feel sexier than being skinny. After I had my son I gained 40 pounds I've never been able to lose, but for some reason it really doesn't bother me all that much. I do look big from the back, but even still, a lot of men like bigger women anyway, not that I even care as I am married but want to look good for my husband. I really don't even know who would think being too unhealthy skinny would like it that way. Some of us are big from having children, bad diets that can always be changed if we try to lose just a bit of weight. I don't see anything bad about someone being a little overweight, in fact I'm a woman and I like the way I look,even though I probably shouldn't. I would feel bad if i gained any more weight as I would think i was too big, but I would try to do something about it like a diet or cut out sugar.