Interesting to me that your group therapy and your being wheelchair bound were of about the same time; I'd look back to that time, see what I could see. I was thinking you would say/do something about the bully beating the woman; the seeing-but-not-doing in the dream reminds me a bit of you being wheelchair bound and not able to help others/how you feel about others/the government not helping you (like you are being beaten/down trodden) and then she comes to you proper, and you stand up. It's kind of like your hands being all tingly when they are normally weak and hurting; lots of seeming "parallels" to me.