Yes, I think as Domino says, you'll get over her when you get a new girlfriend. That's what happened to me with my boyfriend who wouldn't see me anymore, I was in a bad depression, even after meeting/starting to work for my husband (the new, interesting job was not enough without social connections yet). It took awhile before my life changed enough and new things pulled me away from the old. We moved last summer after being in our home for 20 years because I had a few things ending and I wanted to make sure I "started over" well. Has taken me pretty much until now to be "comfortable." Join a group/club or do something different, socially, so you'll meet some new people and get something new going.