well apparently my response to this was a little too much for a forum devoted to sex related issues. seems its been deleted

anyhow, i was just trying to be supportive and encouraging. that is why we're all here, after all.

anyhow, just be safe and don't get any men sent to jail for messing around with a minor.... if the law is different over there, than just be safe and have fun. try not to tear up any marriages or anything.