Apparantly I'm quite mean. Well must be true everyone says so, even my daughter and bf
Thing is though, they know its hardly ever fueled by malicious intent, its just my way, I'm a biyotch by nature. Like how some people don't swear, and how "fk" is part of someone elses regular vocabulary...

People here, well my friends anyway, they know me well enough to know when I'm just being me, or downright mean. So I dont always censor myself, but with new members I do use buffer statements to soften my words or take the venom out of my post, because the person might be really sensitive at that time, or might read too much into what I'm saying, without knowing my personality.

That being said... I have impulsively gotten wayy to angry irl and here, but I do make a point to apologize when I realize I was way out of line. If I believe my reaction was warranted though.... well that's another story, I'm not one to hold my tongue.

Uhm.... So yes I get mean, and when I'm trying reallly hard not to sound mean, I always take a step back and try and read it from the other person's POV before hitting "submit"