Syra: Wow!!I'm sorry this all happened to you....yes I feel like T might have her own issues like she feels some transference towards me...mind you this is just a guesstamation,of why all this went down all of a sudden. I understand you completely,I would at least like to see if I can get past this milestone and know what T is thinking,if not then its on with my life. Did T ended badly with her?how did it end? It is a hard choice and I'm still debating because every time I think about it and the whole situation it makes me a bit frustrated!!!
I can understand a T getting attached to an extent,they are only human,but I'm sure that they'd never admit that. I need to know what is going on though,feels like I was totally blind sided by everything.
Even though T is suppose to be healing and helpful,you can also go through pain because of the pain you've been deflecting. I know that every client/T relationship was different and I always made it clear not define what was in T a relationship.
Now I'm wondering if I can even handle T with anyone,because I'm so damaged and this kind of thing always happens to me