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Originally Posted by ready2makenice
TheRealDeal:sorry this happened to you as well,how did you handle it?did you ever go back?what disorder do you have?
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Unfortunately, things did not end well, and I have written it in previous posts, so I don't want to repeat the details here. Suffice it to say, I am not seeing him any more. I have Borderline Personality Disorder, and with that comes severe abandonment issues. I think the more he tried to push me away, the more I tried to hold on. I think ultimately he just couldn't handle my disorder. Actually, I asked him this directly during our termination, and he said "I can't handle your BPD," almost mockingly. I'm not sure if he meant it or was just saying that to satisfy me.
Anyway, I'm sorry this is happening to you and hope you can work it out or find another T. I may have found one, but I'm not sure yet.