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Apr 20, 2013, 09:36 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2012
Location: California
Posts: 2,248
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LOL. That about covers it 
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I'm surprised she reached out to you at all. I guess it was a lesson learned and I think T learn things about themselves with different clients that they come across.
Good Luck if you do decide to do it again
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Well, she said she was taking a break, which implied she would return. She just didn't say when. I assumed we would reconcile, and that I had to wait for her to contact me. When she invited me back, it was under the same old conditions and it appeared nothing had changed (not based on a lack of information, but because of specific things she said in attempting to reconcile). I'd found another T by then (and I didn't do that immediately - I HATE finding Ts). I didn't know if I would stay with him, or go back to her (and he knew that and was willing to work with it) but I wasn't desperate for her anymore. I probably would have gone back for quite a while, but not under the same conditions. The new T has been terrific.
Thanks for your support. It helps to talk about it, rather than feeling like it something that has to be hidden.
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