I relate to this feeling.

I talked to some ppl at another board here, too. I have a thread called "Active Listening"; it's on the Survivors of Abuse board. I wish I could paste it on here, but I don't know how to do that.

Just feeling like ppl are listening and caring can really make a difference---and not just listening to the "cool" people or the "nons" (persons without bpd) or the "popular ones", etc.

thanks,

Carol