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Originally Posted by BonnieG2010
you see all the perfections in him maybe because you see yourself so low.
Maybe if you would recognize the truth about yourself, the guy could seem less extraordinary and closer to you in many respects.
What you are doing is called sabotage: you are sabotaging yourself and the possible relationship that you want.
Why you think you don't deserve a good person in your life? have you ever asked this to yourself?
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I just don't I'm all that interesting and have a boring lifestyle and don't see why certain guys wouldn't date me.
It seems only ever want to date guys that I'm impressed with or like enough to where I can put them on a pedestal, and I think I'm doing it a bit with this guy.
I have abandonment issues from when I was a kid, my mom left her boyfriend (who was like a dad to me) and left me to be raised by my grandparents.. maybe I'm subconsciously reliving the situation in my relationships?
Things are going good so far.. although I think I'm giving him too much merit on him texting me and wanting to hang out with me.
I don't know how just be comfortable. : /