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Originally Posted by OR82
From experience this is a really bad idea. It may very well end up making it worse. He will probably feel as if you are patronizing him. Its like telling a depressed person to cheer up because others have it worse. That may be true but why would a depressed person feel better due to someone else feeling worse than they do when they have an idea of how that person feels and would not wish it on anyone?
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Yep, it sure can be a bad idea. But that depends on the mind set. Some people are more open to forgiveness, others can appreciate the effort that someone makes, even if it doesn't change their mind over the situation. It all depends on the person and not everyone might want to stay bitter and angry forever.