Granite...when I read what you wrote this thought came to mind....which came first the chicken or the egg...in other words did your mothers treatment of you cause your behavior and did it just cycle on and on from there...

Every kid has issues some have tantrums some are criers... It's up to parents to find a way to help their children learn to handle frustration and stress and stuff and no way what the mother did was acceptable..

You didn't deserve it then...no child would..no matter what