Is Kali the goddess of empowerment ?
So sorry you are going through a hard time.

I am having man trouble, also. My husband can be the most insensitive jerk. He told me he wanted to divorce me the other night. I said ok, do you want the house?
His reply was I am going to 302 you ? I replied I just want you to be happy, and I said to him you just want to make my life hell.
Ahhh, Men
my thoughts are with you, stay strong as you are and know we all love you