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Originally Posted by adam_k
I think oral sex is a good thing if both parties enjoy it. I enjoy giving my spouse oral sex, even though there isn't much pleasure on my side. I think it is the act of giving pleasure to someone you love brings intimacy.
On the other side I have never been able to finish with oral sex alone. I'm taking it as a good thing, but I don't know how to give fellatio and I can't tell her how to do it any better. It feels good, and I enjoy it, but she gets frustrated that she can't make me finish and eventually her jaw hurts. Sex feels a lot better.
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there's an argument to be made for better sex education. I learned a lot from two people in particular, but one was over the phone - I should clarify, in the days before phone sex! A male friend simply gave me instructions in fellatio. I don't know where he learned from, but I guess I learned alright. The other, I learned about my own body from another woman, and my only thought at the time was, wow, I wish I had learned this about 20 years sooner, my whole life could have been different. Like the poet said, Gather ye rosebuds while ye may.