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Originally Posted by OR82
Not to be rude, I am still frustrated, but why exactly does it have to be he's hard to get so I want him crap? I hate hearing that because quite frankly its stupid.
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Well, it's not literally this:
hard to get = desirable
Rather, it's this:
hard to get = not needy
hard to get = exciting danger thrill
hard to get = mysterious
hard to get = she won't have to get too close and reveal herself
hard to get = she won't be pursued or hunted down (maybe she has been)
and any of those are desirable.
Does that make sense? I still agree the overall pattern is stupid. My husband and I are both so clingy others would find it odd, but it works for us. Hard to find people who are not typical, though.