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Originally Posted by Soups
Start loving your body and you will feel comfortable.
yes, people ogling at you does make you uncomfortable but you need to learn to ignore
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People don't ogle at me (or anything similar)...it's not that I necessarily WANT them to, but I always would like to be wanted in some sort of way.
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Originally Posted by JLarissaDragon
Sexy is not just a matter of looks, but heart, feeling, smile, and probably a lot more. I rather like appearing before my husband nude or in some kind of sleazy gown. It gets his hormones going and makes me feel wanted and desirable. I would never go out in public nude though. I believe in modesty to a point, but deliberately covering everything, probably not. Women have to tread a difficult balance between looking unattractive and looking sleazy.
In reading your post, I felt that you were selling yourself short. You do not have to be a beauty queen to feel attractive. It is easy to be hard on ourselves. We are often our own most severe critics I am so sorry that a medical professional of all people would tell you negative stuff about your appearance. I would at least investigate some ways of using make up etc, to cover whatever blemishes you might have. I am sure that it is a scary step for you, but if there is anything that you can do to feel better about you, that may very well make you more attractive to others as well.
Good luck and be encouraged. You deserve to feel good about yourself. I am sure there is a beautiful woman inside who needs to be appreciated. I really believe in you
Love -- Larissa
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So is being really modest, really THAT unattractive? I don't have anyone to dress less modestly for anyway and I have I feeling that that won't happen until I start dressing in a way that I don't feel comfortable.
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Originally Posted by Ultra Darkness
The least I ever wear in front of others is, a T-shirt, jeans, and shoes, and even the T-shirt makes me uncomfortable for a while.
My skin is pretty pale, and I have an acne problem on my arms and shoulders. My legs are covered with little scab-looking things. I rarely bathe, so I have a lot of flaking skin.
I'd hate for anyone to see all of that. But on top of that, I don't feel safe unless I'm fully dressed.
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I pretty much feel the same way, although my skin seems to peel less if I don't bathe all the time.