There are some women who go after wealth and status but its not going to bring you real satisfaction for the longterm. Look at Hugh Hefner, not a good looking man but it proves your point. If I was in the market, all I would want is for him to have enough not to sponge off me.

I've lived in this nice house and we have 2 fancy cars that all mean nothing to me now. If I could win the lottery or get a job to get out I would feel better -money would give me independence. I now drive a 1990 car.

I've seen very unattractive people find partners so I think you should be more patient - maybe you're setting your looks standard to high perhaps. I hope you can find a good hearted woman with a kind personality - this is the best option for you. Personally I resent people with fancy cars and big houses now. Look for kindness and try to be patient.