Oh I'm so sorry that you are going through this! I can relate, I don't shop but I love to gamble and it's hard not to do it. Today, I wanted to go to the casino, fortunately, my husband (who also loves it) said no. I don't know what to tell you, maybe just confess and let your wife know how badly you are feeling. You two have to work together with this problem. Hugs and good luck.