When my feelings for my t were peaking, I was also in crisis. When i proclaimed love for him, he became quite flustered. I pushed him to say how he felt towards me. He was upset and said he had limitations, that he refused to bring me into his life, that it have awful results. During our next session he was calm, asked me if i still loved him, I replied Yes, he said he would just have to get used to it. I said surely in 30+ years in the profession you have experienced this type of thing before...someone Feeling in love with him. He said no. This really threw me. I have emailed him a few times since then mentioning love, but never with intensity of a few years ago. Now my love for him is so much more evolved, into therapy love. The most powerful love I may have ever experienced......