In my marriage to my husband of 10 years, in the last 2 year he has became good friends with his best friends sister.....the text and talk on the phone daily.

Recently, I have found out that the friendship has became more.....I have found naked pictures of both of them and some videos of each other. These were sent by emails and thru their cell phones. This happened 3 times last year. When confronting my husband he said that their friendship had crossed that line. (he said this the first time that this happened which was in March, it happened again in April, then in October) He said they both agreed that they crossed that line and it would NEVER happen again......well it happened again.......

My husband will not quit being friends with her, the texting and phone conversations still happen. He said he doesn't want to loose a good friend, but at the same time how could he do this to his best friend, his wife.

He has apologized numerous of times, as I have forgave him of what he did he is trying so hard for this marriage to work, but I am having hard time with all of this.....

This girl is also married, which he knows nothing about what happened between the two of them. My husband told me we would have more problems if I told him about what happened.......well from my view, I can't get over what my husband did to me, I feel like he is choosing her friendship over his wife/family, and I don't think it's fair that the best friend husband doesn't know.

So confused and don't know what to do.......